Comments on: What Is Your #1 Roadblock to Weight Loss Success? http://www.thefitshack.com/2008/02/27/what-is-your-1-roadblock-to-weight-loss-success/ Permanent Weight Loss | NLP Weight Loss Coach with a Twist of LOA | JoLynn Braley Certified Master NLP Practitioner and Coach Fri, 22 Apr 2011 02:56:23 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: JoLynn Braley http://www.thefitshack.com/2008/02/27/what-is-your-1-roadblock-to-weight-loss-success/comment-page-1/#comment-5041 JoLynn Braley Wed, 21 May 2008 05:34:54 +0000 http://www.thefitshack.com/2008/02/27/what-is-your-1-roadblock-to-weight-loss-success/#comment-5041 Hi Jewelz, I can 100% relate to the fear of success. I haven't gone through 3 deaths like you have but I can relate to the fear. Something you could check out is my series on emotional eating. I've been doing a 12-week program to heal my emotional eating and I really recommend it, however you've got to really want to let the emotional eating go. That's the #1 thing I can say, is that you've got to be ready....I'm not at all making light of what you've gone through, but until you're ready nothing will really work - I've been there myself before so I know. ;) Here's my <a href="http://www.thefitshack.com/2008/02/28/emotional-eating-experiment-shrink-yourself-by-dr-roger-gould/" rel="nofollow">emotional eating series</a>. And also check out my series on <a href="http://www.thefitshack.com/2007/10/01/31-days-of-loving-yourself-thin/" rel="nofollow">loving yourself thin</a>....see if either of these series resonate with you. Let me know if you have any questions, I'll be glad to pass along any info to you that I can. :) Hi Jewelz,

I can 100% relate to the fear of success. I haven’t gone through 3 deaths like you have but I can relate to the fear.

Something you could check out is my series on emotional eating. I’ve been doing a 12-week program to heal my emotional eating and I really recommend it, however you’ve got to really want to let the emotional eating go.

That’s the #1 thing I can say, is that you’ve got to be ready….I’m not at all making light of what you’ve gone through, but until you’re ready nothing will really work – I’ve been there myself before so I know. ;)

Here’s my emotional eating series. And also check out my series on loving yourself thin….see if either of these series resonate with you.

Let me know if you have any questions, I’ll be glad to pass along any info to you that I can. :)

]]> By: jewelz http://www.thefitshack.com/2008/02/27/what-is-your-1-roadblock-to-weight-loss-success/comment-page-1/#comment-5036 jewelz Wed, 21 May 2008 04:06:57 +0000 http://www.thefitshack.com/2008/02/27/what-is-your-1-roadblock-to-weight-loss-success/#comment-5036 I put self sabotage as my biggest issue but really it's a fear of success. I think I stay fat to protect myself from emotional attachment since everyone I've been involved with dies (sounds weird-I know-but the last 3 men I've had serious relationships have died and after each one I gained more and more weight!) I've had years of therapy to deal with this to no avail--I was hoping to find something here at this site that might help me cope. Protecting myself from the emotional nightmare of losing a loved one but also in some weird way trying to save someone else from dying if they get involved with me!!!! I put self sabotage as my biggest issue but really it’s a fear of success. I think I stay fat to protect myself from emotional attachment since everyone I’ve been involved with dies (sounds weird-I know-but the last 3 men I’ve had serious relationships have died and after each one I gained more and more weight!) I’ve had years of therapy to deal with this to no avail–I was hoping to find something here at this site that might help me cope. Protecting myself from the emotional nightmare of losing a loved one but also in some weird way trying to save someone else from dying if they get involved with me!!!!

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